Using Family Mediation to Agree Christmas Child Arrangements

Posted: 21st November 2024
by Angela O’Neill

The festive season often brings joy, but for separated parents in the UK, it can also be a source of stress and tension, especially when it comes to arranging time with children. Disputes about who gets to spend Christmas Day with the kids or how to divide the holiday period can lead to unnecessary conflict. Family mediation offers a practical, amicable way to resolve such disputes and ensure a peaceful holiday for all.

What is Family Mediation?

Family mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where a neutral mediator helps separated parents communicate and reach agreements about their children, finances, or other matters. Unlike court proceedings, mediation focuses on collaboration rather than conflict, prioritising the well-being of children above all else. It is also quicker and more cost-effective, making it ideal for time-sensitive issues like Christmas arrangements.

Why Use Mediation for Christmas Planning?

Christmas is a magical time for children, and ensuring they experience it positively should be the priority. However, unresolved disputes between parents can overshadow the joy of the season. Mediation allows both parents to express their wishes, concerns, and ideas for the holiday period in a structured environment.

For example, some families choose to split Christmas Day, allowing the child to spend the morning with one parent and the afternoon with the other. Others alternate the day each year or divide the holiday week. A mediator can help craft a bespoke arrangement that suits the family’s unique dynamics, ensuring both parents feel heard.

Benefits of Mediation

The outcomes of mediation are often more harmonious than court rulings, as both parties contribute to the agreement. Additionally, involving a mediator can diffuse tensions and foster better communication for the future. By resolving issues amicably, you’re setting a positive example for your children and reducing stress for everyone involved.

The weeks leading up to Christmas can fly by, so it’s wise to start mediation early. Contact a qualified family mediator in your area to begin the process. By working together, you can ensure your children enjoy a joyful, conflict-free Christmas, surrounded by love and care.

Angela O’Neill, a Family Mediator from EMG Solicitors’ Family Law team said: “Disputes about spending time with your children, especially on Christmas Day, can be devastating. Mediation can result in arrangements being agreed in as little as one session and can save you the heartbreak that not seeing your children at such a special time of the year.“

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